Sunday, October 21, 2007



Nothing seems to ruffle you more than a lack of discipline, disloyalty and decorum. But Arians are also known to go into a rage very easily when challenged. Those of you who have been on the receiving end of the Aries temper know that if not calmed down they can even get violent. But one thing is certain if the opponent remains calm and does not react to their outburst, Arians cool down very fast. They are also the first to apologies, which makes them easier to forgive.


You are generally quiet and have control over your emotions. It is difficult to predict what will upset you, so when you do lose your cool, people don’t know how to react. Your temper is like that of a raging bull, and anyone trying to pacify you will be the first one to get a verbal bashing. You generally get upset when you are concerned or when people accuse you of doing something wrong. You also hate being reminded about mistakes you’ve made in the past. You also have the potential to be terribly vindictive if rubbed the wrong way.

GEMINI MAY 21 – June 29

You are recognized by your cheerful disposition and your jovial nature is easily susceptible to anger. In fact, you are the best person to have around when there is an ugly scene at a party you can bring the warring factions together quite diplomatically. But when you lose cool, you yell and scream and will not listen to reason. You must have the last word in a wordy duel. Your capacity to argue aggressively is matched only by your seductive charm.


Considering how charming, caring and kind you are, you dislike unpleasant scenes, much less creating one yourself. You have great tolerance and rarely get provoked into losing your temper. If someone is unreasonable or trying to create trouble, you are more likely to walk away quietly. But that does not mean you do not have a temper. When angry, in your effort to control your emotions, you tremble, your hands get sweaty and sometimes you fumble for words. Tears roll down your eyes easily and the opponent is touched by your innocence and will seek an apology immediately.


If anyone has total control over their emotions, it is you. But then, you can be described as stiff, cold and uncaring. You are known to lack spontaneity but you really don’t care about opinions. You don’t like to create scenes and will never accept invitations to a party where you suspect the presence of an unruly lot. But your very presence seems challenging to some and they take vicarious pleasure in your disquiet. When angry you can use critical language. A dressing down can humiliate your opponent, causing a strain between both of you forever.


Most of you are gentle and have full control over your emotions but those of you given to temper tantrums can certainly get violent. When see things with rage, you yell and shout and tend to break things lying close at hand. You can even harm yourself by banging your hands on a glass top table or wall. You should never get into any argument, for you are a sore loser. You feel that others are trying to persecute you and don’t quite respect your opinions. When hurt, you can also hold grudges forever.


Did someone say that you are the charmers of the zodiac? Well, it’s true. Few have ever seen you ruffled or angry. You are very conscious of your image, and you believe that anger distorts your face and personality. You also think you are above things like anger. But wait before you get into self-congratulatory mood. Your family or those very close to you know you better. You have an unmatched temper amongst all the zodiac signs, and what makes it worse is your capacity to justify it.


Of course you don’t lose your cool. But your very demeanour (manner) projects haughtiness (arrogance, pride), pride and grand disdain (disregard) for lesser mortals (human). Others are often found saying that anger sits on your nose and you are raring to give your piece mind to the first person that try to be funny with you. You are selective in the choice of your friends, and have a low tolerance for the superfluous (extra) types. Your tongue-lashing (attack) is generally in a soft hissing tone for when you scream, your voice tends to get shrill and loud and you do hate drawing attention to yourself! When upset, you are angrier with yourself for having shown weakness, for the last thing that Scorpio wants to show is being out of control.


You are insensible and generally have no complete control over your emotions. You do get angry quickly and others marvel at your anger levels even when provoked. Actually, you get tongue-tied when angry and you will remove your anger waiting for the other person to calm down. Then you will reason with your opponent and convince the other person in a very gentle manner that the whole thing was just his mistake. You’re also likely to totally sever ties with someone when you’re upset with them.


Few will believe that a hardcore practical and materialistic person like you is capable of sensitivity and genuine emotions. You project a hard exterior but are actually very sensitive, a trait you successfully hide from others. You can see thing with anger but will not betray your feelings. But then, there are times that even you cannot control your temper. Under such circumstances you can shout and scream, more with frustration at the situation than with anger at any particular person. Your outbursts can shock others and can make them feel guilty too.


You are noble and kind and dislike losing control over your emotions. It is very rare for you to get angry. You are also the pacifier in situations that involve arguments. It is always your endeavor to be perfect and socially correct in your behavior and attitude, but if misunderstood and slighted you can give in to an angry outburst. You will shout and scream and then walk out from the scene. You cannot easily forget the situation and will be bitter about it for a long time.


The only thing that can be said about you dreamers is that you appear even more attractive when angry. You are very sensitive to others’ feelings, so you rarely hurt them. But when others tend to hurt you, then things take a nasty turn. You will yell and use harsh words and feel inclined to shake everything and everyone up. Your creative imagination is at its best when angry, and you tend to get pretty dramatic. When upset, you refuse to listen to reason and wish to be left alone. But once you calm down, you repent your tantrums and seek forgiveness. SO nobody can be upset with you for too long.

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Adab Makan Di Majlis Rasmi

Tidak banyak yang mengetahui atau menitikberatkan adab makan di meja makan semasa majlis rasmi. Perlakuan ketika makan melambangkan taraf dan hubungan sosial dan perangai sebenar seseorang individu. Individu yang mempunyai adab yang baik di meja makan lazimnya dilabel sebagai seorang yang dibesarkan dengan penuh tatasusila dan dihormati. Seseorang yang nampak gelojoh, tidak sabar dan tidak mempedulikan orang lain dianggap sebagai seorang yang tiada didikan dan kurang ajar.

Adab meja makan merangkumi banyak aspek, daripada cara anda menerima jemputan dan memaklumkan kepada hos, cara berpakaian, ketibaan anda di majlis, cara anda mengendalikan sudu dan garpu, cara anda melayan pelayan, perbualan anda semasa makan, etika sebelum, semasa dan selepas makan, dan sebagainya. Di bawah ini adalah tips adab menggunakan sudu. pisau & garpu di meja makan..

Menggunakan pisau, garpu, sudu dan kadang-kadang, tangan!

Penggunaan pisau, sudu dan garpu sinonim dengan makanan ala barat. Jenis makanan yang dihidangkan lazimnya mengandungi daging atau ayam yang disediakan dalam saiz besar yang perlu dipotong sebelum makan. Sebagai contoh, steak, lamb chop, grilled chicken dan sebagainya.

Sekiranya terdapat lebih daripada satu sudu dan garpu yang perlu digunakan, anda perlu tahu sudu yang sepatutnya digunakan untuk makan, sudu untuk sup, sudu untuk pencuci mulut dan begitu juga garpu. Ada garpu untuk daging dan ada untuk salad. Jika anda keliru, jangan bimbang. Lazimnya, juadah yang dihidangkan adalah mengikut kedudukan sudu dan garpu. Gunakan sudu atau garpu yang terletak paling hujung atau jauh sekali dan bergerak ke arah dalam.

Sebagai contoh, appetizer akan dihidangkan dahulu, seperti sup, jadi gunakan sudu yang paling kanan. Begitu juga salad, gunakan garpu yang paling kiri. Namun, trend yang digunakan sekarang ialah sudu atau garpu akan diberikan mengikut juadah yang akan dihidangkan. Jadi, anda hanya perlu mengikut sahaja!

Pisau hendaklah dipegang dengan tangan kanan dan garpu dengan tangan kiri. Hal ini kerana banyak orang yang memotong dengan tangan kanan. Jadi, keadaan ini semata-mata untuk keselesaan. Lain pula sekiranya anda kidal, anda boleh memotong dengan tangan kiri.

Cara memakan steak dengan betul ialah anda menggunakan garpu yang dipegang dengan tangan kiri untuk memegang daging dan memotong dengan pisau. Potong kecil beberapa ketul daging dan letakkan pisau anda melintang di atas bahagian depan pinggan dengan bahagian tajam menghadap ke dalam. Tukar garpu ke tangan kanan dan makan perlahan-lahan. Jangan gelojoh.

Sudu dan garpu hendaklah dipegang secara mendatar dengan mengimbanginya di antara jari hantu dengan jari telunjuk, dan distabilkan oleh ibu jari. Sudu dan garpu yang telah digunakan tidak boleh diletakkan di atas meja kerana akan mengotorkan alas meja. Sudu dan garpu juga tidak boleh diletakkan di dalam mangkuk atau di dalam gelas kerana tidak stabil. Sudu atau garpu hendaklah diletakkan di tepi piring yang digunakan untuk mengalas mangkuk.

Kenali jenis-jenis makanan yang boleh dimakan menggunakan utensil yang sesuai atau dengan tangan

1. Sup – harus menggunakan sudu yang disediakan bagi sup. Sudu tersebut agak dalam dan bulat bentuknya. Sup mesti dihirup perlahan-lahan. Jangan sampai mengeluarkan bunyi kerana perbuatan tersebut tidak sopan.

2. Salad – gunakan garpu yang dikhaskan untuk salad. Garpu salad kecil sedikit berbanding garpu biasa.

3. Ikan – gunakan garpu dan pisau yang dikhaskan untuk ikan. Garpu untuk ikan selalunya pendek sedikit daripada garpu untuk daging.

4. Daging – gunakan garpu utama yang disediakan.

5. Pencuci mulut – sebagai contoh agar-agar, puding, bubur dan sebagainya. Biasanya sudu untuk pencuci mulut dibawa bersama dengan mangkuk atau piring sebelum juadah pencuci mulut dihidangkan.

6. Asparagus – asparagus boleh dimakan dengan tangan asalkan asparagus tersebut tidak disaluti apa-apa sos. Jika tidak, anda boleh menggunakan garpu yang disediakan untuk salad.

7. Bacon – apabila bacon iaitu kepingan daging nipis dibakar sehingga garing dan tidak berminyak, anda boleh menggunakan jari untuk memakannya seperti snek biasa. Hal ini kerana agak susah untuk memotong bacon yang garing menjadi kepingan kecil. Anda juga tidak mahu bacon tersebut terpelanting ke tempat lain semasa memotong!

8. Roti – roti mesti dipecahkan dengan tangan, jangan sekali-kali gunakan pisau. Koyak secebis yang sederhana besar dan makan dahulu sebelum mengoyak cebis yang seterusnya. Jika mentega disediakan, gunakan pisau untuk menyapu mentega tersebut pada cebisan roti sebelum anda memakannya. Sekiranya anda dihidangkan roti ban yang masih panas, anda dibenarkan memotong ban berkenaan memanjang di tengah dan menyapu mentega di rekahan tersebut bagi mencairkannya.

9. Biskut – biskut lazimnya dimakan dengan tangan walaupun dihias dengan buah-buahan atau tuna di atasnya.

10. Jagung – sekiranya hanya butir (kernel) jagung yang dihidangkan, anda boleh menggunakan garpu untuk memakannya tetapi jika dihidangkan secara sebiji-biji, anda dibenarkan makan dengan menggunakan tangan. Sekiranya mentega disediakan, gunakan pisau untuk menyapu pada dua baris jagung dan makan dahulu dengan bersih sebelum menyapu dua baris berikutnya.

11. Kentang goreng, ayam goreng dan burger – makanan seumpama ini dikategorikan sebagai makanan ringan dan selalunya tidak dihidang di majlis-majlis formal. Makanan ini boleh dimakan dengan tangan tetapi ayam bakar atau chicken chop hendaklah dimakan dengan menggunakan pisau dan garpu.

12. Sandwich – sandwich biasa yang dihidangkan tidak mempunyai filling yang terlalu tebal atau lembik dan boleh dimakan dengan tangan.

13. Buah-buahan kecil bertangkai – kadang-kadang pada juadah pencuci mulut, dihidangkan buah-buahan kecil seperti ceri, beri dan strawberi yang masih bertangkai. Anda boleh mengambil dan memakannya dengan tangan. Sekiranya anda tidak mahu menggunakan tangan, anda boleh menggunakan sudu tetapi berhati-hati, jangan pula buah tersebut melayang! Bagi gugusan buah anggur yang dihidangkan dengan tangkainya, anda boleh memotong sedikit bersama tangkainya dan letakkan di dalam pinggan anda. Jangan ambil buahnya sahaja kerana tangkai yang kosong di hidangan nampak kurang elok dan tidak menyelerakan bagi orang lain.


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Friday, October 19, 2007

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Thursday, October 11, 2007

101 different ways of saying 'I love you' . . .
Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
Albanian - te dua
Arabic - Ana Ahebak / Ana Bahibak
Arabic (to the female) - Bahebbek
Arabic (to the male) - Bahebbak
Armenian - yes kez shat em siroom
Assyr - Az tha hijthmekem
Bahasa Malayu (Malaysia) - Saya cinta mu
Bangla - Ami tomakay bala basi
Bavarian - tuI mog di
Bosnian - Ja te volim (formally) or volim-te Turkish seni seviyorum
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian (to the male) - oun saleng bon
Cambodian (to the female) - bon saleng oun
Cantonese - Ngo oi ney
Croatia - Volim te
Czech - Miluji Te
Danish - Jeg elsker dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
English - I love you
Esperanto - Mi amas vim
Estonian - Ma armastan sind / Mina armastan sind (formal)
Ethiopia - afekereshe alhu
Finnish - Minä rakastan sinua
Flemish (Ghent) - 'k'ou van ui
French - Je t'aime
Gaelic - Tá mé i ngrá leat
Georgian - Miquar shen
German - Ich liebe Dich
Greek - agapo se
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - oo tane prem karu chu
Hawaiian - Aloha au ia'oe
Hebrew - Ani ohevet ota
Hebrew fem. Plural - Ani ohav etkhen
Hebrew fem. sing. - Ani ohav otakh
Hebrew masc. or mixed plural - Ani ohav etkhem
Hebrew masc. sing. - Ani ohaw otkha
Hindi - Main tumsey pyaar karta hoon / Maine Pyar Kiya
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska thig
Indonesian - Aku Cinta Kamu
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Italian - Ti amo/Ti voglio bene
Japanese - Anata wa, dai suki desu
Japanese - Sukiyo Javanese (formal) - Kulo tresno marang panjenengan
Javanese (informal) - aku terno kowe
Kenya (Kalenjin) - Achamin
Kenya (Kiswahili) - Ninakupenda
Korean - SA LANG HAE / Na No Sa Lan Hei
Kurdish - Khoshtm Auyt
Laos - Chanrackkun
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es mîlu Tevi
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - As Myliu Tave
Macedonian - Jas Te Sakam
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Saya cinta mu
Maltese - Inhobbok hafna
Mandarin - Wo ai ni
Nigeria (Hausa) - Ina sonki
Nigeria (Yoruba langauge) - Mo fe ran re
Norwegian - Jeg elsker deg
Pakistan (Urdu) - May tum say pyar karta hun
Persian - Tora Doost Darem
Pig Latin - I-yea Ove-lea Ou-yea
Polish - Kocham Cie
Portuguese (Brazilian) - Eu te amo
Portuguese (Continental) - Eu amo-te
Punjabi - me tumse pyar ker ta hu'
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tyebya lyublyu
Scottish Gaelic - 'S tough leam ort
Serbian (accent 'O') - Volim te
Serbo-Croatian - Volim te
Sign language - Spread hand out so no fingers are touching. Bring in middle & ring fingers and touch then to the palm of your hand.
Slovak - Lubim ta
Slovenian - ljubim te
South Sotho - Ke o Rata
Spanish - Te quiero / te amo / yo amor
Sri Lanka - Mama oyata aadareyi
Swahili - Naku penda
Swedish - Jag älskar dig
Swiss German - Ch-ha di gärn
Tagalong - Mahal Kita / Iniibig kita
Tamil - Naan Unnai Khadalikkeren
Telugu - Nenu Ninnu Premisthunnanu
Thai - Khao Raak Thoe / chun raak ter
Thai (affectionate, sweet, loving) - Khao raak thoe
Thailand - chun luk ter
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Yalleh blutebeh / ya tebe kohayu
Urdu (to a girl) - Mea tum se pyaar karta hu
Urdu (to a boy) - Mea tum se pyar karti hu
Vietnamese - Toi yeu em
Vietnamese (Females) - Em yeu Anh
Vietnamese (Males) - Anh yeu Em
Welsh - Rwy'n dy garu di
Zambia (Chibemba) - Nali ku temwa
Zimbabwe - Ndinokuda
Zulu - Mina funani wena

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Life is ADVENTURE dare it.
Life is BEAUTY worship it.
Life is CHALLENGE meet it.
Life is DREAM realize it.
Life is ENDURANCE copewith it.
Life is FRAGRANCE smell it.
Life is GAME play it.
Life is HEAVEN take it.
Life is INITIATIVE take it.
Life is JOURNEY complete it.
Life is KEROSINE burn it.
Life is LOVE enjoy it.
Life is MYSTERY unfold it.
Life is NAME find it.
Life is OPPORTUNITY catch it.
Life is PROMISE fulfil it.
Life is QUSETION answer it.
Life is REALITY face it.
Life is SONG sing it.
Life is TIME utilize it.
Life is URAGE satisfy it.
Life is VOICE listen it.
Life is WEALTH acquire it.
Life is X ? solve it.
Life is YEARNING go after it.
Life is ZENITH attain it . . .

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A Friend . . .

(A)ccepts you as you are.
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up ! ! on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes.
(G)ives unconditionally.
(H)elps you.
(I)nvites you over.
(J)ust "be" with you.
(K)eeps you close at heart.
(L)oves you for who you are.
(M)akes a difference in your life.
(N)ever Judges.
(O)ffer support.
(P)icks you up.
(Q)uiets your fears.
(R)aises your spirits.
(S)ays nice things about you.
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it.
(U)nderstands you.
(V)alues you.
(W)alks beside you.
(X)-plains thing you don't understand.
(Y)ells when you won't listen and.
(Z)aps you back to reality . . .

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